HELPFUL TIPS Communicating with Young Teens |
*Listen. Encourage your teen to express ideas and opinions freely to promote a relationship of mutual respect. |
*Set reasonable boundaries and limits. As teens grow and mature it helps them to have clear rules. Rules are pivotal and help set the scene for living in society. |
*Establish logical consequences for poor choices. Teens must take responsibility for their actions. |
*Select your "battles" wisely. Choose the important issues to avoid treating minor mishaps as major catastrophes. |
*Talk when you are calm. When emotions are flaring, call a time-out. Count to ten or go for a quick walk to clear your head. Don't try to have a discussion with your teen when either of you is angry. |
*Seek professional help with serious problems. Do not try to handle such problems by yourself. |
*Take the time to engage in meaningful conversation with your team to share daily events. Have fun and be involved with your teen. |
*Remember you are the most important role model for your teen. You have the wonderful opportunity to be a positive example in your teen's daily life. |