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Ages and Stages: Seventh Grade
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Check out this link for more information regarding the 7th grade child.

Where They Are
The average twelve-year-old is entering the stage in between childish and mature behavior. He:
Is spirited and enthusiastic.
Can "stay put" longer and exercise self-control.
Develops a growing sense of intuition and insight into self and others.
Becomes less moody and may become good-natured around adults.
Becomes increasingly self-reliant and self-centered.
Is curious but not ready for long-term planning.
Has strong desire to be like peers.

Where They're Going
At this age your child is learning how to be independent as she undergoes many changes. You can help by encouraging her as she:
Learns to cope with changes.
Makes the transition to adolescence.
Works on interpersonal skills.
Adjusts to peer groups and pressure.
Develops her personal interests and abilities.
Gains a greater sense of responsibility for her behavior and decisions.


Top Signs of Trouble in Seventh Grade

Your seventh-grader is entering a period of change on all fronts. He is on the threshold of becoming a teenager, trying to determine who he is and what he can do separately from you. To navigate this year successfully, your child must learn how to balance academics and social life and how to have confidence in his academic abilities. Your child will have trouble if he's not able to:

Establish a feeling of belonging within a group.
Appreciate his own individuality.
Avoid risk-taking behaviors.
Complete and turn in all assignments in a timely fashion.
Accept responsibility.

OTHER LINKS TO HELP WITH YOUR 7TH Grade child
                Failing Seventh-Grader
                Seventh-Graders Who Skip School
                Common Questions about the Seventh Grade
                Unmonitored Seventh-Grader Needs Support
                Seventh-Grader with a Bad Attitude





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